Meandering (Wide)

Thursday, February 27, 2014

6 Months


Stats:  
Callie had her 6 month check-up postponed a few times because I had to travel so much for work this month, so these are her 6 1/2 month stats.  Callie weighs 13 lbs 9 oz (5th percentile), is 25 1/2" long (30th percentile) and her head is 16.63" (36th percentile).  Our pediatrician says she's small but hearty and that her height/weight growth curve is moving along normally, so she isn't concerned about her growth.  WHEW!

Health:
Callie caught her first cold this month.  I also caught the same cold on the exact same day, so poor Bryann had to take care of a sick baby AND a sick wife.  Callie was really, uncharacteristically fussy on Saturday while Bryann was at school, and I was like "WTF is going on?".  Then that night, she REFUSED to go to sleep for more than 45 minutes, and I didn't notice she was running a little warm until I fed her at like 2 am.  So I took her temperature at 100.4, called the RN line to see what to do... Apparently nothing- stupid babies and colds - we were told to let her immune system do it's thing and not to give Tylenol for fevers below 102.

So I basically breastfed her every hour and sucked the snot out of her nose with the Nose Frida (amazing invention).  When she wasn't sleeping, she was crying, and both Bryann and I (at one point or another) got so annoyed and fed up with the crying that we needed to take a break or we might have gone insane.  I don't know how single parents do it.  I'm completely baffled that anyone is able to survive raising a kid on their own.  We actually gave in around 4pm on Sunday and gave her some Tylenol.  30 minutes later she was 90% back to herself.  By Monday she was fine, but I was still sick.  Stupid babies and their stupidly amazing immune systems...

I DID learn a few things though - apparently breast milk delivers antibodies specifically tailored to fight whatever illness she's dealing with, and adjusts it's temperature to suit her body temperature.  Breast milk also helps keep the mucous in the nose from proliferating and keeps babies from getting all stuffed up.

Poor baby girl is sick...  :-(  


Sleep:  
Callie has gotten into this terrible habit of waking up at 1:30 am now.  Usually Bryann puts the pacifier back in and she's asleep again.  Sometimes that doesn't do the trick and he bottle feeds her.  But she's always up again between 3 and 4 am.  Then again between 6 and 7 am.  We are exhausted...

Clothes/Diaper Size:  
We moved Callie into size 2 diapers at night and are going through the last of our size 1/2 diapers during the day.  She's fitting nicely in her 3-6 month clothing, though occasionally I can squeeze her into a 3 month outfit depending on the brand.  I even have Cherokee brand NEWBORN clothes that she still fits nicely into.

Diet:  
Callie is still breastfeeding, and eating nicely from the bottle.  I'm SO glad the bottle battle is over!  We introduced some solids to her diet towards the end of this month.  We started spoon feeding her bowls of oatmeal at night, and she's played around with some mushed carrots.  I think she even got a few carrot chunks in her mouth, rather than all over her face!

Baby Gear Love:  
We're still getting great use out of her Ergo carrier, her strollers (both the BOB and the stroller frame for her car seat), and since she's still a little (ok, a LOT) small for her highchair, I purchased a used Bumbo with tray on CL, and she's been much easier to feed in it.

There are lots of mixed opinions out there about whether Bumbos, or walkers, or any sort of seat that enables babies to sit before they're "ready", but we really only put her in them for short amounts of time (10 minutes here and there) and closely monitor her while she's in them.

Nicknames:  
Nothing new this month.  Lots of variations with the word "Goo" and "Monster" in it.  Googley Bear came back since we watched Monsters Inc. the other day.

Favorite Songs/Lullabies:  
Callie seems to enjoy any music at all.  I turn on my Pandora stations during shower time, or while I'm working and she's playing on her jungle mat.  I also sing all the usual silly songs while I'm feeding her, burping her, changing her, or playing with her.

Milestones/Firsts:
Sitting up.  Callie can balance herself pretty well leaning forward and doing a tri-pod thing with her arms.  She sits really well on my lap, leaned against a corner of the couch, or with the boppy pillow supporting her sides. 

Sitting up before she's even 6 months old!


Eating cereal from a spoon.  Lots of adventures in eating this month!  She likes to grab the part of the spoon with the food on it, but never manages to actually get any food in her mouth.  So I end up holding her hands while I feed her so she can slurp the oatmeal off the spoon.  She's SUPER smiley through the whole process and leans forward for the next bite.
Exploring some oatmeal and some spoon


Half-rolling back to tummy.  We have to help her roll over because she hasn't figured out the leg fling yet.  So we hold her leg down opposite side and she flips herself on over.  She's enjoyed playing on her stomach a lot more this month.
Doing the half-assed half-roll

Crying to get attention or to protest against having whatever she got hold of taken away.

First Snow.  We had Snowmagedon 2014 hit Portland this month and got a good 8 inches of snow at our house!  We couldn't help taking her out and snapping a few pictures.
SNOOOOOWWWW!!!



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I know this is all about Callie, but look how cute Sammy is!

First cold.

First baby play date.  I had Annie & Clara, Tamara & Hannah, and Katee & Isaac over for a good ol' baby play date and mommy gossip session.  Annie brought her camera and snapped some awesome photos, and it was really nice watching all the babies interact with each other.  Isaac brought his farm over because he wasn't sure whether we would have an appropriate amount of toys, but he ended up ignoring his farm and SUPER into Callie's Disney Princess walker and her Jungle play mat.

First time spending a few days alone with Grandma Lainey and Grandpa Jake.  Bryann and I both had work trips scheduled (me in LA and Bryann in Tacoma) over the same period and my parents were amazing and came to watch her for a few days while we were gone.  She fared just fine.  She ate from the bottle like a champ and even slept well.  I think I had a harder time being separated from her than she did.  I came back at like 10:30 at night, went in to feed her and she woke up for a few minutes, said "goo goo ga ga" (translation "Hey mommy!  How was your trip?  Nice to have you home. Welp, gotta get back to sleep.") and went straight back to sleep.  For my part, I enjoyed a few nights of un-interrupted sleep, and work and some LA friends kept me occupied while I was away, but I think 3 days away from my baby and my family is about my upper limit.  By the end of the trip I couldn't WAIT to get home.


Likes:
"Coffee Talk" (in the voice of Amy Pohler and Maya Rudolf on SNL).  This is where I drink coffee while Callie talks to me, and I ask her to expound on her thoughts.  She really does have some fascinating opinions already!

Putting things in her mouth.  Seriously.  Everything she gets her hands on goes in her mouth.  I even got her a little too close to my valentines roses when we were having mirror time in the kitchen, and she got hold of the rose buds and yanked the rose out of the vase and started chewing on it.  And she moves SO FAST, I couldn't stop her in time so she ended up yanking out a bunch of the petals.

Getting "kiss-monster"ed in the face.

Being thrown in the air.

Dislikes:  
Being tired.  Callie definitely has some great "put me down for a nap IMMEDIATELY" signals, including rubbing her eyes like crazy.  I once caught myself rubbing my eyes when I was really tired and cranky one night, and I was like "Hmmm... I now know where she gets that from!"  Perhaps it IS just a baby thing in general to rub ones eyes, but I prefer to think she's inherited all of my adorable quirks.  (Yes, my quirks are ADORABLE!!)

Things I Don't Want to Forget:
Spoon feeding her oatmeal cereal for the first time.  She would get a good bite down her gullet and then look up at me and smile oh-so-proudly!  UGH she's the cutest!!

One time we put her on her stomach in her nursery to try to entertain her longer before putting her to sleep, and she full-on planked like a seal, and lifted her legs super high up in the air behind her.  I swear they went above her head.  Bryann and I laughed and laughed and laughed.

Singing "Happy Half Birthday to You" in our family room with my parents and with Reezy on the phone.  Bryann was still in Tacoma on a work trip, and I had just gotten in from my work trip and was exhausted and hazy.  But it was still wonderful to reach that milestone with her and sing to celebrate.


Tummy time with Daddy

Enjoying her toes these days

She's quite the early reader

Just being adorable.  Don't judge the Reindeer jammies in February!


She LOOOOOOOVES playing with her toes

Pumping in the airport while I'm on my business trip

My milk stash when I got back from my 4-day trip
Polk-dot Queen of the World!!



Friday, February 7, 2014

5 Months


Stats:  We skipped the 5-month check up, but I took some measurements at home.  Our bathroom scale (measuring the difference between me and Callie) says she's about 13lbs. (11th percentile) and I measured her at 25.75" long (68th percentile).  Apparently she's just growing tall and not growing chubby yet.

Health:  We seem to have gotten her reflux under control.  At Callie's 4-month check up, our ped upped her baby Zantac dose to 0.7ml twice daily.  Since then I've seen a pretty big improvement.  She still spits up occasionally, but doesn't soak her clothes requiring several outfit changes a day like she used to.  


Aside from the reflux, she's healthy as can be!

Sleep:  I wish I'd appreciated her sleeping more during month 2 and 3...  This month has been really up and down.  At one point this last month, she was up every 45 mins to 2 hours.  Then she'd sleep long stretches (10pm-5 or 6am) for one or two nights, making me think waking up so often the few nights before was just a fluke.  But really it's the sleeping long stretches that was the fluke.  Usually she's down at 8, dream feed at 10, then she's awake and hungry between 1:30am and 2:30 am, and again between 4am and 5am.  


At one point last week, I was so exhausted (and my boobs were worn out from her eating at 2am and increasing my milk supply for that time frame, then skipping that feeding the next day and sleeping until 5am, making me engorged and in pain,) I told Bryann I couldn't do any more feedings before 4am, and if she woke up before then, he'd have to take over with a bottle.  Since then, she's still woken up a few times in those early morning hours, but Bryann's been starting by putting the pacifier back in, and she usually falls back to sleep.  She's only not fallen back to sleep once, and she took 2.5 oz from a bottle at 1:30am with no problems.  (yay!!)

Clothes/Diaper Size:  I officially had to pack up all of her Newborn sized jammies and onesies.  She's filling out the 0-3mo, and just starting to fit comfortably in the 3-6 mo clothes.  She's still wearing the 1-2 diapers from Costco, but once those run out, we'll be able to use all those size 2 diapers I got my baby shower.

Diet:  Still breastfeeding!  Yay!  She gets pumped breastmilk in a bottle when I'm at work and Katee is watching her, and she's been doing SO much better with the bottle this month.  Almost no fuss anymore!  *crossing fingers it will stay that way...*  


She also gets a bedtime bottle with rice cereal mixed in to the breastmilk, because 1) we need to get some extra calories in her to help her gain weight better 2) rice cereal helps manage her reflux and 3) she eats more from the bottle at bedtime than what I can pump.

Baby Gear Love:  I still use her swing and her jungle play-mat daily.  We've been able to use some of the toys we got from the baby shower and as hand-me-downs and we particularly like her soft Elephant rattle and a sunshine face rattle.

Nicknames:  Callie-bug, Goober Boober, Babers, Goo-ga-moo, Googley-Bear.  I've also nicknamed myself "Mommy Kiss Monster".

Favorite Songs/Lullabies:  If I start singing the feeding song "Yummy yummy yummy, you've got milk in your tummy..." she'll stop eating and look up at me and smile and giggle.  I taught her "Auld Lang Syne" this month so she could sing along at New Years.  She just generally appears to like any old song with any old words I seem to make up and sing to her all day long.

Milestones/Firsts:  Callie has officially started (purposely) reaching for and grabbing toys, and then sticking them in her mouth.  Really anything she gets her hands on goes in her mouth.  She's almost figured out how to put her pacifier back in her mouth, too.  


We heard her first giggles this month.  She's not one to giggle easily, so sometimes it takes quite a bit of silliness on our parts to get her to giggle.  Mostly she just squeals with delight and does this extended-smiling bit, but every so often, she lets out a "hee-hee-hee".  

Callie can also stand supported for a goodly length of time, and she likes to sit up supported, either with our hands under her armpits, or leaning against us sitting on our laps.  

This month, Callie experienced her first New Year's Eve.  We hosted the 3rd Annual Turner's New Years Bash, and she REFUSED to go to sleep.  So we ended up bringing her downstairs to join the party, and putting her in the Ergo when she finally got tired (which I think was around 10:00).  She woke up again right around 11:30 and Bryann almost missed the countdown because he was feeding her and putting her to bed. 

Callie also got to meet her Great-Grandpa Joe!  Papa came to visit for a few days just before the new year, and I know it was really special for Bryann, and meant a lot to us both.   
Callie with Great-Papa Joe


Super Dad with Grandpa


Likes: Watching me shower while I sing and dance and make funny faces at her.  Standing up on the bathroom counter and cooing at herself in the mirror.  Talking, thbbt-ing, and coughing on purpose, discovering all the sounds she can make now.


Getting her diaper changed.  Being thrown in the air (but just the teeniest tiniest bit, or I get a little anxious!)

Dislikes:  Not being put down for a nap or being fed IMMEDIATELY when she decides it's time.

Things I Don't Want to Forget:  Every DAMN time I watch Bryann playing with Callie...  Just KILLS me.  I think I might die of my heart melting.  


Bryann feeding her with a bottle at bedtime and remarking "Remember when this used to be hard?"  

Callie squealing at me while I sing for her and play peek-a-boo in the shower.  

The Baby Zantac Saga:
Day 1- Kristi leaves cap off newly refilled prescription. Bryann unknowingly spills said newly filled prescription into drawer and soaks baby clothes in baby Zantac. Kristi notices bottle is missing from dresser and Kristi and Bryann get into spat about whose fault it is that baby Zantac is now out again. 

Day 2- Kristi refills prescription yet again while pharmacy lady wonders what sort of underground baby Zantac drug ring tired mom is running. Bryann spills bottle of baby Zantac AGAIN, this time through no fault of Kristi's, but Bryann tries to blame the baby and her exuberant kicking. Perhaps if Bryann left baby lying down on changing pad and hadn't picked baby up and placed her legs within kicking range of bottle, bottle would not have been kicked over. Bryann takes full responsibility for his actions and hopes Kristi won't kill him. 

Day 3- Kristi refuses to be seen at Pharmacy again, so Bryann goes in to pick up prescription YET AGAIN as well as deli dinner for the drive out to beach house. Bryann leaves bottle in the same bag as deli dinner. Kristi finishes deli dinner and throws away bag. Kristi asks Bryann where the baby Zantac is when they arrive at beach house that evening. Bryann says in the food bag. Kristi bangs head against wall. 

Day 4- Kristi refills prescription for the 4th time, claiming it was forgot at home while on vacation.  Monkey at Tillamook Fred Meyer Pharmacy is inept and Kristi spends 2 hrs on the phone back and forth between pharmacy and clinic. Insurance now thinks something fishy is going on and won't pay for prescription. Luckily baby Zantac is cheap...


Callie with Great-Papa Joe, GC, and Auntie Whitley

Winter walks with the baby through Cook Park

Bryann with our other "child"

Hanging out in Hannah's Bumbo

Chewing on her hands, enjoying life after keeping us up all night

Enjoying a cuddle nap

Playtime with Daddy

Colts V. Patriots!

Colts V. Patriots with the mamas

Trying to eat her Mr. Sunshine rattle

Throwing a tantrum during "tummy time" 

With Uncle Adam and G-pa Jake after Adam's MBA graduation ceremony

Look how big she's getting!

Ready for some football!

Kitty napping on top of baby, napping on top of me.  

Daddy-Daughter playtime on the kitchen counter.  I love the way she's looking at him!