Meandering (Wide)

Monday, February 18, 2013

Mid-Week 14 Reflection

Over the past few days, I've got a bit of awesome news, and a bit of awful news.  The awesome news:  I found out one of my good friends is pregnant, and I'm SUUUUUUUUPer excited about it!  The awful news:  I found out one of my old acquaintances was pregnant, but miscarried at 13 weeks, and I hurt for her.  I guess this is the constant battle and balancing act in life.

So in reflection, here's an excerpt from my favorite prose poet, Kahlil Gibran.  I love reading Gibran's works when I'm feeling like life is unfair.  His writing helps to remind me that life and everything in it is a constant cycle.  Every emotion or state of being has an equal and opposite, and we cannot feel one without the other, and so should be grateful for both.


On Joy and Sorrow
Your joy is your sorrow unmasked.
And the selfsame well from which your laughter rises was oftentimes filled with your tears. 
And how else can it be? 
The deeper that sorrow carves into your being, the more joy you can contain. 
Is not the cup that holds your wine the very cup that was burned in the potter's oven? 
And is not the lute that soothes your spirit, the very wood that was hollowed with knives? 
When you are joyous, look deep into your heart and you shall find it is only that which has given you sorrow that is giving you joy. 
When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight.  
Some of you say, "Joy is greater thar sorrow," and others say, "Nay, sorrow is the greater." 
But I say unto you, they are inseparable. 
Together they come, and when one sits, alone with you at your board, remember that the other is asleep upon your bed.  
Verily you are suspended like scales between your sorrow and your joy. 
Only when you are empty are you at standstill and balanced. 
When the treasure-keeper lifts you to weigh his gold and his silver, needs must your joy or your sorrow rise or fall.

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